WOMEN AND HEART ATTACKS: Things Every Woman Should Know, and So Should the Men Who Share Their Worlds

Do you know, when women have heart attacks, they seldom experience the same symptoms as men experience. Yet men’s symptoms are well and widely known. We men are told what to watch for early in life. So why are women not told what symptoms and signs they should watch for! Heart attacks are the number one killer of women in the world. If we do not know how to spot them coming, the earlier the better, how can women get the help they need before or when they need it.

Until just recently I had no idea heart attacks for women did not present the same as heart attacks for men. And when I found out, I was furious. Even in the medical world, where women dominate by numbers, most women are not aware of their signs of an oncoming heart attack, or an ongoing heart attack. So how do they, or the men around, them know when to call 911. This is what this post is about, and I hope you will reblog it, or otherwise spread it, to all your friends and readers, and that they will spread it to everyone they know. But let me shut up, and have Suze Hartline tell you about her heart attacks. It was sheer serendipity that I learned all this from Suze, so here is her story in (mostly) her own words. (I took the initiative to edit it just a bit!)

Suze Hartline: Men’s heart attack signs are well known. Women’s symptoms, even though heart attacks are the number one killer of women in the world, are not generally known.
Here they are. I learned these from Dr John Randolf, Oklahoma Heart Hospital director of cardiothoracic surgery after my second heart attack.
1) Angina, but NOT described as  crushing chest pain. Most women describe a “band of pain circling their upper chest directly under their breastbone.” They may think it is simply an upset stomach or gas pains. (Life threatening sign)
2) Sweating: From the waist to the head, sudden onset and dripping.  (Life threatening sign)
3) Nausea/vomiting/diarrhea:  all three occurring simultaneously, sudden onset immediately after sweating. (Life threatening sign)
4) Faintness may occur along with the sweating.
5) Jaw pain on ONE side only. may last several days before the heart attack occurs.
6) NUMBNESS and/or pain in hand that can travel up to the elbow. One arm only. May last WEEKS before a heart attack.

The biggest problem with women recognizing a heart attack is that our symptoms are NOT the same as men’s. 

(For those who might not know, Angina is chest pain or discomfort caused when your heart muscle doesn’t get enough oxygen-rich blood. It may feel like pressure or squeezing in your chest. The discomfort also can occur in your shoulders, arms, neck, jaw, or back [American Heart Association]. Angina itself may or may not be a heart attack, but can definitely occur during or lead to one. If you experience chest pain as described above, please get help immediately.)

Suze Hartline: I had my first heart attack at age 52.  I had been in excellent health. I had actually run a marathon that spring. I worked full time, and volunteered at a local women’s shelter. I had no idea what I was about to go through.
I spent the morning at water aerobics, after which I got into a hot tub to relax my muscles. A person in my exercise group said I looked a “bit gray.”  I felt fine, so ignored her statement. I had been having numbness in my right hand for about a week, but thought nothing of it. I also had some jaw pain, and had made an appointment with the dentist for later that week. It seemed to be intermittent and I had had trouble with a back tooth a month or so before. I figured it was the same tooth that a temporary filling had been placed in.  Heart attack never occurred to me.
On the drive home I felt a bit nauseous but figured it was because I was hungry and was late with breakfast. After I got home, I started to sweat… a LOT. It occurred to me that it was weird I was sweating only from the waist up… so I took a shower. Afterwards, I experienced explosive diarrhea, along with extreme vomiting.  I felt a bit faint. Again, Heart attack NEVER occurred to me. I thought perhaps it was food poisoning, except I hadn’t eaten anything. It had been two hours since I felt the first symptoms yet I didn’t put it all together.
I laid down to settle my stomach and realized the sweating had begun again…and now I felt a band of pain beginning in the center of my back and traveling around to my lower chest. I began to think I’d better call 911 and speak to someone who could put it all together for me. I got up and walked to the living room to call.
I called 911 and stated my name and address, then told the operator about the different symptoms I was having. But before I could speak any further, I became extremely faint and fell to the floor. I remember thinking as I was falling “I am going to die.”
I woke up in a helicopter for a brief moment. The technician was yelling “she’s got tombstones!” … The next time I woke up was in the heart hospital AFTER surgery. Successful surgery, luckily.
 My surgeon said I was extremely lucky as my heart was blocked 99% in two major arteries, and one other was 100% blocked.  I had gone into fibrillation (where the heart simply shakes instead of pumping blood), thus the tombstones on the ekg. He said if the EMT’s hadn’t arrived exactly when they did I would NOT have been alive long enough for any surgery to save me.
I was honestly amazed it was my heart that was the problem. I KNEW the signs of heart attack and which order they occurred, except what I KNEW was in MEN.  I had been discounting all the signs because they didn’t fit what I had learned. My husband, who is a CARDIAC intensive care RN DIDN’T KNOW EITHER! I had been telling him all the weird symptoms I had been having and it never occurred to him that they were heart related.
At least I knew the symptoms when I had my second heart attack, and I got to a doctor at the FIRST sign. A simple procedure to break a clot was all it took to fix the problem. I now take medication to keep my blood from clotting so easily. AND, I now get immediate help instead of waiting for something “big enough to bother a doctor with.”

Suze is a very lucky and a very special person. She lived to tell her tale. But no one listens to it. Why not? Women are half the people on this planet. A great number are going to experience heart attacks, and many of them are going to die because they and the people around them DO NOT KNOW what to look for!

Well, now you do. Please do something to help spread this information. No one else seems to care…

An afterthought: There is information on the world wide web about women’s heart attack symptoms, but not as much as I thought there should be. And if you do not know it is there, you are NOT going to go looking for it. Also, when you do look, if you do, the information is presented matter-of-factly, and has no urgency to it. Heart attacks are URGENT! They are life and death urgent. Please learn these signs and symptons, and make sure everyone around you learns them too. You never know who will need help, or when they will need it.

A second afterthought: While researching this topic on the internet, I came across an article asking why more women have not heard of women’s heart attack symptoms. That writer thought this knowledge was important then. Unfortunately, I did not think to bookmark the article, and I cannot remember how I got to it. That is not important. What is important, that article was published in 2018. It is only three years later, but still hardly anyone knows. THAT MUST CHANGE! Please, be the change.

Author: rawgod

A man with a lot of strange experiences in my life. Haven't traveled that much per se, but have lived in a lot of different areas. English is the only language I have mastered, and the older I get, the more of it I lose. Seniorhood gives me more time to self-reflect, but since time seems to go much faster, it feels like I don't have as much time for living as my younger selves did. I believe in spiritual atheism and responsible anarchy. These do not have to be oxymorons. Imagination is an incredible tool. I can imagine a lot of things.

25 thoughts on “WOMEN AND HEART ATTACKS: Things Every Woman Should Know, and So Should the Men Who Share Their Worlds”

    1. Thanks, Roger. If you could reblog it I would appreciate it. (And you could then let me know if I have the right reblog buttons on my blog. Someone said I don’t a while ago, and I went looking but I could not find how to add such a button. And I have no idea where to look!)

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      1. Hi rawgod.
        I put your post on FaceBook and then ‘shared’ it on WP. Similar to reblog but comes up as if I’d written it and added you as a link. Why WP differentiates between ‘shares’ and ‘reblog’. I do not know.
        It may have something to do with the format you chose as I’ve noticed a few folk with just a ‘share’ option or it maybe WP just being its usual ornery self.
        Anyway, I’ve spread the word for you.


        1. Thank you very much, and I hope it keeps getting shared. I tried to put it on my partner’s Facebook yesterday, but it was taken down for some reason I cannot imagine. I must have done something wrong. I will be trying again later today.
          As for WP, I have no idea how or why it does anything, lol. I’m an amateur at blogging. I just write posts or comments, and until recently never paid attention to anything else. I think there are things I need to learn.

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          1. Both FB & WP is my experience are filled with quirks and glitches; the fact that they are very large platforms, with a busy traffic both in and out leaves so much opportunity for things to go wrong.
            I checked my FB page and the post is up there, been there for 6 hrs so hopefully it will stay.
            Like yourself I’m amateur, and do exactly as you do. My theory is WP is actually business orientated as Word is as neither take kindly to us mere folk doing our own thing.
            (I did ‘try’ to learn but kept meeting up with business-speak and techno-jargon and do not posses the patience to preserve)


            1. Glad i’m not the only one! Buggers me that they get anything right, but they’ve been around long enough to get the kinks out.
              Still, I think I successfully got the post back up on my girlfriends FB, and it has stayed there for a few hours. I even found a way to send it to her woman friends, the few she has. Hopefully they will répost it too. I would like to create a groundswell till everyone knows the symptoms. My fingers are crossed. And I do not care who gets cited for writing it. The message is much more important than the medium.

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    1. Few do, Gary, and there are many, male and female, who don’t seem to care. Women do not have time to take care of their bodies, unless it is to make their bodies more attractive to men.
      We live in a sick sick society.

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  1. Reblogged this on silverapplequeen and commented:
    This is really important. The difference in symptoms in heart attack shows the sex-based differences in men & women. You cannot “identify” yourself into the other sex & for medical reasons alone, COMPLETE HONESTY about your birth sex should be maintained, regardless of how you identify. For your own health & the collective health of all of us.


    1. Thank you. Not sure how twitter works, I tried it over 10 years ago (or thereabouts) and was not impressed. I hope you reach a large audience. This is something that needs to be known, but even doctors are not telling us. Why not, I cannot imagine. I guess women are NOT important, all evidence to the contrary.

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      1. Only people that will be aware currently on Twitter, will be my followers with me recently making my Twitter account private, while my mental health is as it is at the moment and in preparation for when I take some time out later. My Twitter account may be public again later, just don’t know at the moment. I will update on my blog, whenever it changes. But there will be plenty of followers being made aware. I have shared it last night and plan to retweet it today.

        My blog post is scheduled this morning to air and point in direction of your post.

        There is not enough mention about heart attacks for women. Pointing out how its different for them.


        1. Which, when I discovered the differences, is why I wrote the post. I am lucky right now, the woman in my life seems to have a strong heart. But I now know what to watch for (barring senility), and I hope more people will learn. And maybe my post, through my friends, can help save a life. At least I am trying.

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